Barbara J. Friss, 68, of Ghent, NY, peacefully passed away at St. Peter's Hospice Inn with her family at her side on August 17, 2015. Born to the late David and Ruth O'Donnell on February 18, 1947, in Albany, NY, she was married in 1964 to her first husband Richard Gardella who predeceased her after 27 years of marriage. She is survived by her beloved husband of 21 years Gary R. Friss; two sons, Richard (Gail) Gardella, Jr. of New Mexico and Randy (Dawn) Gardella of Hillsdale; two daughters Anita (Brian) Lossow of East Chatham and Melissa Radley of Ghent; 11 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild; a brother Peter O'Donnell of N.C.; and best friend of fifty years Monica Lippera. She was predeceased by her older sister Mary Gardella and brother David O'Donnell. She was a loving, devoted wife, mother, nanny, and friend. Her contagious smile and hard work ethic will be remembered by many who knew her from the Italian Delight Restaurant and Lagonia's Fire Hill Inn. Her commitment and passion was to her family. A perfect day could be spent gardening at her home in Ghent followed by a good glass of wine while playing poker with her family or embracing the beauty of the beach with her husband and children. A celebration of her life will be held in a private ceremony by her immediate family. Donations in Barbara's memory may be made to the Community Hospice Inn, 295 Valley View Blvd., Rensselaer, NY 12144. For on-line condolences visit wenkfuneralhome.com